Sunday, September 30, 2007
GROWING OLD
Grow old along with me, the best is yet to be.and so on. This is a beautiful poem by Robert Browning. Let's be realistic here. Is growing old great? Are these the golden years? I doubt it. There are so many problems associated with old age. Sickness and lonliness are just a few. Some people are luckier than others and have fuller lives. You have to take the cards you were dealt and play your hand. Do not look to others for your happiness. Do not expect your children to entertain you. whether yiou have 2 or 8 like I have, they are not here to be your salvation. Develop hobbies, find friends and activities of your own, or you will be unhappy. Be grateful every day for all you do have and keep a positive outlook.Maybe then you can face the end without fear. I'm still working on it.
THE BLUEST EYES
Blue is the color of my true love's eyes. How many times have you heard this in a song? Bob and I met in a class at TCC. It is now called Central Ct. State University. Bob came bounding into the class room talking and joking with everyone. I said to myself," Who sent in this clown?"
Actually,Iwas drawn to his personality since I was very shy and could never relate to people like he did and still does. We dated, married and were very busy raising our eight children. Over the years women of all ages have come up to Bob and remarked about his beautiful blue eyes. He always says" My wife will scratch your eyes out. " or " Where were you sixty years ago?" I just smile. By the way, I never noticed his blue eyes.
Actually,Iwas drawn to his personality since I was very shy and could never relate to people like he did and still does. We dated, married and were very busy raising our eight children. Over the years women of all ages have come up to Bob and remarked about his beautiful blue eyes. He always says" My wife will scratch your eyes out. " or " Where were you sixty years ago?" I just smile. By the way, I never noticed his blue eyes.
Thursday, September 27, 2007
Rita goes to school
This is a picture from my week-long visit to the infamous "surf diva" school in Costa Rica. I graduated not only with flying colors, but also with a torn rotator cuff, a dislocated hip, and muscle soreness that lasted about 2 months. I'm exaggerating a bit, but it really was a physically punishing week! After the first day I felt like I had been in a bar brawl. By the second or third day I really got into the swing of things, eventually graduating to what is called the "outside" (out beyond where the waves break). It's pretty hard to paddle out there, but it's so much fun. Catching your first wave is unforgettable and more fun than most things I've experienced. I really appreciated the simplicity of it -- you didn't have to chop down trees and ride a gondola to get a downhill thrill. It's eco-friendly and free! Try it.
Rita and Noemi in Copey, Costa Rica 2007
This is a fairly recent picture of me and my friend Noemi from Costa Rica. She took me to her home town in the beautiful mountainous area south of San Jose, a little town called Copey. It's an agricultural region that, so far, has escaped the overdevelopment and pollution associated with tourism. Her family grows apples (which require cool evenings), avacados, plums, and some other things I've forgotten about. We're posing outside of her brother's restaurant here -- they get trout out of that lake and cook it fresh for you. It's delicious. Noemi is doing well and hoping to visit the Noonans, her "gringo family," sometime soon. She loves visitors, so please let her know if you're ever going down that way.
Wednesday, September 26, 2007
HURRICANE OF 1938
THE HURRICANE OF 1938
I will never forget that fateful day, September 21st, 1938. Nancy and I were on our way to religious instructions at St. Mary’s church. We left Smalley school with dozen of other kids and headed up north street to the church. The wind was howling and the rain was coming down sideways. We had an umbrella but it was useless, so we didn’t even attempt to use it. As soon as we arrived at the church, the priest realized the severity of the storm and sent all of us home. I will never forget the horror of struggling against the wind fighting to catch my breath. Luckily, the priest at St. Ann’s church took us in. We waited out the storm there, safe at last. After several hours, the storm subsided and the priest gave us bus money to get home. When no bus arrived Nancy and I walked all the way home to Wilcox Street. Trees were down everywhere and live wires were dancing and sparking all over the sidewalks. We dodged them all although I almost stepped on a few. When we got home, our parents were waiting for us in the driveway. They were so happy to see us alive. All we could say was “ gee, we still have our umbrella. It didn’t blow inside out”.
I will never forget that fateful day, September 21st, 1938. Nancy and I were on our way to religious instructions at St. Mary’s church. We left Smalley school with dozen of other kids and headed up north street to the church. The wind was howling and the rain was coming down sideways. We had an umbrella but it was useless, so we didn’t even attempt to use it. As soon as we arrived at the church, the priest realized the severity of the storm and sent all of us home. I will never forget the horror of struggling against the wind fighting to catch my breath. Luckily, the priest at St. Ann’s church took us in. We waited out the storm there, safe at last. After several hours, the storm subsided and the priest gave us bus money to get home. When no bus arrived Nancy and I walked all the way home to Wilcox Street. Trees were down everywhere and live wires were dancing and sparking all over the sidewalks. We dodged them all although I almost stepped on a few. When we got home, our parents were waiting for us in the driveway. They were so happy to see us alive. All we could say was “ gee, we still have our umbrella. It didn’t blow inside out”.
Friday, September 21, 2007
THAT'S A LOT OF KIDS
You think things are tough today? Take a look at the gang assembled on Hahn's back steps. Can you picture this unruly crowd running through your house, as they often did? The Hahn and Noonan kids often were assembled for holidays such as Thanksgiving, and on Wilcox Street, the six large rooms were aligned in such a way as to create a race track when all the interior doors were opened. At some point, we and the Hahns agreed that we wouldn't visit them if they wouldn't visit us. Take a peek.
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Tolland Democrats erase sexism from regulations
Here's an interesting article I stumbled across while looking though Mrs. Charland's old scrap book. This was printed in the Tri-Town Reporter June 1, 1975. Seems Tolland had a pretty progressive Town Chairman back then.
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
MOE RECALLS
I grew up in a three family brick house in New Britain. Our family lived on the second floor. We had a very large tenement of six rooms. Our kitchen was three times the size of kitchens today. We also had a pantry and a laundry room off the kitchen. In the kitchen, we had an ironing board that folded into the wall. The refrigerator and sink were in the pantry so we only had a stove, a table and chairs in the kitchen. There was so much wasted space!
In those days we didn't have hot water or showers. We finally got a hot water heater, but that was when I was in high school.
Our back yard had a four car garage and an ash box. In the back of the garage we had a large lot with a huge cherry tree. We had lots of land to play in for a city block. It was not as great as having your own home as we do today, but it was fun back then.
One of the most interesting things about our house was my grandfather's wine cellar. He imported grapes from California and had his own press, and did all the work himself. He had a small cot in the basement where he would nap when he got tired. Pressing grapes was hard work. I didn't like going into the basement. It scared me. The attic was a different story. I never tired of exploring the many treasures that were stored there. Everything considered, I had a pretty interesting childhood.
(The picture of 112 Wilcox Street was taken in more recent times. There were three porches on the building when Moe lived there. They have since been removed.)
Saturday, September 15, 2007
SAMANTHA & BILLY
We visit Nancy and Bill quite often, and sometimes we meet the children of Kelly and Davey Hahn who live across the courtyard. We had a nice visit with Nan, Bill and Davey the other afternoon. The kids were in school at the time, but here they are in a picture taken a year or two ago. Say hello to your relatives.
Monday, September 10, 2007
Bryant Plumbing
I played golf with Rene Charland a few weeks ago. We had fun remembering all the fun, crazy things we did togehter over the years. He lent me the scrapbook Mrs. Charland had created when they were in high school, there were lots of articles about Richard and Rene too, but I also found some old Bryant Plumbing articles from our days playing softball at Cradalls. I think Dad still runs into Bruce Bryant around town in Tolland. He was a great guy, coach and sponsor.
I'll post some of the articles from the Journal Inquirer from the mid 1970's, looks like I can't add more than one photo here.
I'll post some of the articles from the Journal Inquirer from the mid 1970's, looks like I can't add more than one photo here.
Thursday, September 06, 2007
HERE'S MOE
Here's Moe in a familiar pose--cuddling kids. She spent a lot of years doing this, and still does it emotionally--sometimes over the phone. Her reasonably capable assistant, Noonski, is depicted here, also